How do INTJ and ENFP Relationships Work Out?
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There are many variables and issues when it comes to romantic relationships. Also, the INTJ and ENFP can be difficult in pursuing a serious relationship, but for different reasons. However, the INTJ and ENFP are one of the best pairings for romance.
There is a couple my wife and I hang out with and she is an ENFP and he is an INFJ. My wife is an ENFJ and I am an INTJ. Recently, my wife had a lengthy conversation with the ENFP and afterwards my wife said, “does she have the same ‘letters” as you?” I told her no, but the ENFP often approaches things similarly to the INTJ.
The INTJs and ENFJs are often excellent complements to each other for several reasons.
ENFPs are very good at helping INTJs broaden their social connections and form new friendships. INTJs typically disconnect themselves from unnecessary social functions. I know I am often looking for a corner to hide in a group. ENFPs are great chaperones to the INTJ because they work the room like a politician while the INTJ gladly lets them have that time in the sun.
ENFPs appreciate INTJs emotional strength. Others often see the INTJ as cold and aloof (the “coldest human”), while the ENFP sees them as an anchor and calming influence in stressful situations.
They both have a similar sense of humor. ENFPs tend to be humorous and friendly. They appreciate the INTJs dry and sometimes dark style of humor. The INTJs love for irony and sarcasm is often a delight for the ENFP, while other types would simply roll their eyes. The ENFP considers wittiness to be extremely important in friends and romantic relationships. They know how to turn on the charm and make light-hearted and amusing conversation with almost anyone. INTJ humor is generally more subtle, dry and even (sometimes) unintentional. They may utter ironic statements with such sincerity that the effect is unexpectedly hilarious. Both types love parodies, satire, and clever comedy. They relish sharing stories with each other. When looking for entertainment to view or books to read, they would often complement each other in their choices.
They have similar love languages. INTJs rate quality time as the most preferred love language while ‘words of affirmation’ was the most popular among ENFPs. INTJs and ENFPs often enjoy time together hanging out in the same space while doing independent things. INTJs love how… (read more, while there FOLLOW Kevin and check out more of his work)
